Originally posted by: OOBradm
I had been dating this girl, whom i will call Shari, for three years now. Were Juniors in college now, she goes to Boston U, I go to Penn State Main. Weve done the long distance thing two years now, and I was comfortable with it and life was pretty good.
Now, im talking to her on AIM this past saturday, just bullsh!tting with her, and we get on the subject of drinking.
She says: "I actually stopped drinking until thanksgiving break at least."
I reply: "Oh, why is that?"
She responds "Well, remember Chris from work? he has a bad alcohol problem and I told him if he stops drinking then i would too"
"Well thats nice of you" I said.
Now, at this point in time, soemthing rubbed me wrong. we kept talking for abuot 5 minutes, when i just randomly blurted out "Is Chris going to be a problem between us when we go back home for break?"
She doesnt say anything for 3 minutes, then says "maybe."
I respond with a "WTF?"
she responds with "Im going to be honest - im going to visit him on the 6th of October"
And the conversation ends on that note.
Now, its about 12:30 in the morning, and im lying down trying to sleep, but i can't because my mind is racing. At about 3 AM, after tossing and turning and letting my mind wander places I was scared of it going, I decided i needed to call her.
So i call her, and at this point in time i was pretty upset so my voice sounded very shaky and sad
she answers "hi"
I say "Hi, shari..... *slight sob*"
she says back "Babe, whats wrong? I love you, Chris. Are you ok?"
Three years of my life gone in one sentence.
I'm never talking to her again.
Originally posted by: OOBradm
She worked with this guy over the summer, they went out after work a few times with their work crew. I never thought anything of it. My first instinct after i heard all of this was to try to work things out. I seriously love the girl. But, it's not worth it and im just going to end up hurting myself more than i am right now. So, time to forget and move on. She said she still Wants to talk and stay close because she sees things for us in the future, but not now. but honestly, after all of this behind my back, I don't think i could ever trust her enough to date her again.
Originally posted by: JonTheBaller
Uhh she doesn't look at her phone to see who's calling before she picks up?
I'm calling SHENS on this whole story.
Originally posted by: OOBradm
Originally posted by: Aimster
Originally posted by: OOBradm
She worked with this guy over the summer, they went out after work a few times with their work crew. I never thought anything of it. My first instinct after i heard all of this was to try to work things out. I seriously love the girl. But, it's not worth it and im just going to end up hurting myself more than i am right now. So, time to forget and move on. She said she still Wants to talk and stay close because she sees things for us in the future, but not now. but honestly, after all of this behind my back, I don't think i could ever trust her enough to date her again.
that means she wants to go out with this guy and keep you as an option on the side.
Love sucks doesn't it?
It almost ruined me.. several times.
Hope you feel better and I know you will with time.
Yep, thats how I saw it too. I'm not sticking around for this "maybe later" stuff. Its been a really good three years, and for her to end our relationship with such a lack of respect for me shows me a lot about who she really is and how much she really cared. So, although it hurts, a lot, im not gonna talk to her, im going to forget she existed, and move on. After I drink this beer.
land-what phone?Originally posted by: reverend boltron
Originally posted by: JonTheBaller
Uhh she doesn't look at her phone to see who's calling before she picks up?
I'm calling SHENS on this whole story.
Maybe she has a land line phone. Meanie.
Originally posted by: KarenMarie
Wow! Sucks to be you!
Sorry you are hurting.
Originally posted by: JonTheBaller
Uhh she doesn't look at her phone to see who's calling before she picks up?
I'm calling SHENS on this whole story.