Originally posted by: Zysoclaplem
Well first off, I am an idiot.
I had been seeing someone (#1) for about 2 weeks, maybe. 18, Very very attractive, sweet and funny.
But, no car, no job, and mama still controls their life.
I.E. Sunday I invited this person over to hang out, or go have dinner.
Well they told me they couldn't because Sunday is the Sabbath and you are not supposed to entertain yourself or others on the Sabbath, or something. Mama would not let them leave the house except for church on that day. They are Mormons. That upset me, because I had not been able to see the person for days. Not only that, they went over on their cellphone minutes, so mama took the phone away. No way to contact them what so ever. I finally heard from this person again today. I figured they just decided not to talk to me anymore.
The second person (#2) I met last night. Also 18. Has a job and a phone. Goes to college.
Sweet, Cute, Fun. We saw a movie. It was great. Seems interested in me, and wants to go out again Friday.
The problem is, I already had sex with #1 after about a week. It complicates things.
I intended to exclusively date #1, or try to, but I don't think I can deal with mama and other factors. But this person wants to continue dating.
I want to try to date #2 now (seems more stable and inline with what I want), and still be friends with #1 because I know it won't work out with #1.
Does that make me an asshole?
If you were #1, would you feel used?
I don't want to hurt anyones feelings. But if I continue dating #1 I know how it will end. Badly.