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[alkemyst]

Originally posted by: mjuszczak

1) I am sleeping with someone as a " hook up " since last week.
2) I now realize "How well you treated me and how lucky I was to have you"
3) "No one will ever hold me like you did"

did this go #1, then you saying a bunch of stuff and her agreeing by delivering #2...then you going into mentioning love and special times together, etc and how could she do this to you until she delivered #3?

Sounds like #2,3 are the typical 'nice' things 90% of us say when #1 goes right over someone's head.

 

[chambersc]

Originally posted by: necine
My Rule: After she's touched another man I'm done with her. Nuff said.

as in you only date virgins? you muslim?






ZING!

 

[Buck Armstrong]

I just read your other threads, and thats enough!!! Why are you even still talking to this b*tch? You are NOT friends; she is the master, you are the tool. You've been strung along and abused and toyed with. So here's the deal: FVCK HER, MAN! Do you understand?! Don't even speak to her anymore, unless she calls you, and then you don't stop to chit-chat, or "give her sex tips", or anything else. You say: "Look, what do you want, and why are you calling me?" And don't be nice about it either. That's IT. Period.

You have to understand, to an impartial observer, you look like a complete pvssy. You've taken enough sh*t, she IS NOT coming back, she DOES NOT want you, and most importantly, she DOES NOT respect you, so why even be friends? I'm saying this for your own good: She's not worth another fvcking word. LET IT GO.

 

[Choralone]

Time to cut all communication with her or else you're going to regret it in the future. Just my $.02

 

[manlymatt83]

Originally posted by: alkemyst

Originally posted by: mjuszczak

1) I am sleeping with someone as a " hook up " since last week.
2) I now realize "How well you treated me and how lucky I was to have you"
3) "No one will ever hold me like you did"

did this go #1, then you saying a bunch of stuff and her agreeing by delivering #2...then you going into mentioning love and special times together, etc and how could she do this to you until she delivered #3?

Sounds like #2,3 are the typical 'nice' things 90% of us say when #1 goes right over someone's head.

No. She said #1, and then was sad, and then said #2 and #3 on HER OWN. Ask someone who has read the conversation. They were completely her own words without my inspiration.

And she said even more once we were on the phone.

 

[manlymatt83]

Originally posted by: Choralone
Time to cut all communication with her or else you're going to regret it in the future. Just my $.02

You guys are right. And I just got done doing a really hot girl. And I feel really good about all of this.

We'll see how I feel in the morning.

 

[The Batt?sai]

Originally posted by: amicold
You're fvcked. Women do this to men, that's something you're going to have to deal with. Move on.

its true. my ex almost exactly acted like this. damn. scary how similar this is to my own story

 

[AbAbber2k]

Originally posted by: mjuszczak
i'm happy now though. because she finally realized what the hell she lost.

Or she's just saying it to string you along because she's a sick twisted b1tch.

Just a thought.

 

[VanTheMan]

Leave her alone and find someone to love who can give and demonstrate sex tips toyou[/].

 

[Fraggable]

I say cut her off completely right now. You'll regret it later if you don't. You won't get anything out of this relationship, she'll just use you.

 

[manlymatt83]

Originally posted by: Fraggable
I say cut her off completely right now. You'll regret it later if you don't. You won't get anything out of this relationship, she'll just use you.

I know.

You know, its funny, how one month a girl can be all over you, looking into your eyes, smiling because she's so happy, so proudly walking down the street with you at her side, saying she loves you, cuddling with you all night long face to face, nose to nose, practically kissing all night long because of how much she cares.....

only weeks later to completely change, string you along, get confused, and eventually "realize how well you treated her" even though she won't try again and is screwing another guy.

I think I'm either too mature for her, which is why this boggles my mind so much, or I've done something really wrong and I can't pin point what it is.

and that's what i'm scared about: I know I'll find another girl. Its whether I'll find someone who made me as excited, nervous, and happy as she did. And whether I can find another girl who will put me in a dream world like she did. And most importantly, find another girl who will cuddle with me all night long. I'm addicted to cuddling. All night. Not letting go. If the girl rolls over I get pissed. I hope I can find another girl like that.

-Matt

 

[manlymatt83]

OK, I decided to make our conversation public, but I'm gonna remove this file tomorrow:

http://mj.atopia.net/scratch/convo2.html

Now everyone can read it if they wish and affirm that I am indeed doing the right thing by letting go...

 

[manlymatt83]

Originally posted by: mjuszczak
OK, I decided to make our conversation public, but I'm gonna remove this file tomorrow:

http://mj.atopia.net/scratch/convo2.html

Now everyone can read it if they wish and affirm that I am indeed doing the right thing by letting go...

Wow. Well I guess everyone has said what they wanna say. hehe....

Thanks to everyone who replied. I had a lot of good PM's.

 

[Anghang]

keep us updated

 

[Eeezee]

She's a cocktease.

TAKE COVER!

 

[manlymatt83]

OK.... so here's the deal.

I just realized something. When we were talking on Monday night on the phone, and being all cute (which is what made me think hey MAYBE something can happen, she's being really cute and flirty with me...), this is what was said:

Her: "Matt, I know how you feel."
Matt: "You know that I love you still?"
Her: "Yes"
Matt: "Well, this is in your hands. If you want something to happen, all you have to do is make it happen."
Her: "I know."

I'm just realizing now, that she basically was saying "Yes matt, I know you're obsessed and I can come back anytime when I'm ready."

Maybe that explains the "I still love you, no one will ever hold me like you did, but hey, I'm gonna keep ****** this guy."

hrmph.

 

[skrilla]

You shouldn't even be talking to this girl.

 

[nightowl]

This sounds like the exact same thing that I have been subjected too for the past 5 months. GF broke up with me found some other guy. Still calls me sometimes and makes it seems that she still has feelings for me. Finally after a call at 4am and talking to her afterwards I told her to not call me again. It hurts I know, but I cannot be subjected to this treatment if I am going to move on. She has completely changed from my standpoint. She has lied to me a number of times since we broke up and it is like she is not the same person. The hard part for me is that we are going see each other from time to time at events throughout the year. When I see her again and if she comes up to me I am going to act like I have not met her before because she is not the same person anymore.

 

[altonb1]

Originally posted by: mjuszczak
Was it worth it now that you look back?

NOT AT ALL! I wasted so much time stressing over her and trying to find ways to win her back, and I realize now it was just a complete waste of energy on my part. I kept thinking that we would someday get back together, but now in hindsight, I realize that the relationship was not what it should have been nor would it have lasted had we gotten back together afterwards. Sometimes, even though a relationship may have had promise at one point, you realize that events make a future impossible. even if we HAD gotten together again, there had been too much pain and hurt from the break-up that we would have never been able to put it behind us and grow together again.

 

[MisterJackson]

She's feeling you out to see if a three way is possible between all of you. I can hear her tightening the strap on as we speak.

 

[slightlyhuman]

You know, its funny, how one month a girl can be all over you, looking into your eyes, smiling because she's so happy, so proudly walking down the street with you at her side, saying she loves you, cuddling with you all night long face to face, nose to nose, practically kissing all night long because of how much she cares.....only weeks later to completely change

jesus tap dancing christ, that sentence right there is nothing but truth.

 

[manlymatt83]

Originally posted by: DP

You know, its funny, how one month a girl can be all over you, looking into your eyes, smiling because she's so happy, so proudly walking down the street with you at her side, saying she loves you, cuddling with you all night long face to face, nose to nose, practically kissing all night long because of how much she cares.....only weeks later to completely change

jesus tap dancing christ, that sentence right there is nothing but truth.

Yep! Agreed.

 

[linkgoron]

Originally posted by: mjuszczak

Originally posted by: DP

You know, its funny, how one month a girl can be all over you, looking into your eyes, smiling because she's so happy, so proudly walking down the street with you at her side, saying she loves you, cuddling with you all night long face to face, nose to nose, practically kissing all night long because of how much she cares.....only weeks later to completely change

jesus tap dancing christ, that sentence right there is nothing but truth.

Yep! Agreed.

Well, he was quoting you

 

[manlymatt83]

Originally posted by: linkgoron

Originally posted by: mjuszczak

Originally posted by: DP

You know, its funny, how one month a girl can be all over you, looking into your eyes, smiling because she's so happy, so proudly walking down the street with you at her side, saying she loves you, cuddling with you all night long face to face, nose to nose, practically kissing all night long because of how much she cares.....only weeks later to completely change

jesus tap dancing christ, that sentence right there is nothing but truth.

Yep! Agreed.

Well, he was quoting you

I guess...

 

[manlymatt83]

So is there anyone here who after reading the conversation feels I was completely wrong? (most people have said "Stay away from her, she's weird" or something of the sort to me so far)