It's interesting how my comment that people should have personal accountability, got twisted into some nonsense about how men should have more control over their impulses. That is one of the typical responses, though. I can agree that in a perfect society, a person would be able to feel safe no matter what, but a perfect society would have a lot of impossible things. In the real world, actions have consequences.
"Actions have consequences", and "people have a level of personal accountability", isn't the same as saying "threatening others is OK".
Picture an angry mob of people standing in the street with picket signs. Some are shouting and cussing, others are well dressed, and standing peacefully with their picket signs. The overall tone of the group, though, is that they're fed up with something.
There's a lot of rational response to seeing this. Maybe I'd decide to walk up to one of the people who seems less visibly angry, and ask "What's going on?". I could get close enough to hear the people shouting, and take note of what they're saying. If I disagree with the message, I'd certainly keep that to myself, until I'm out of range of the angry mob.
Approaching the mob, with a "You're all crybabies!" sign, shouting "Waaa! Waaa!", wouldn't be the smartest thing to do.
Of course, the internet isn't the street, but this is the best way to describe how I see much of Wu's actions.