Originally posted by: gopunk
i believe he should get rid of them
before you all flame me, hear me out... would you want your wife keeping pictures of naked men around your house? i sure as hell wouldn't...
I agree.
Originally posted by: gopunk
i believe he should get rid of them
before you all flame me, hear me out... would you want your wife keeping pictures of naked men around your house? i sure as hell wouldn't...
Tell her that if she were a decent wife she'd buy him a lifetime subscription to Playboy
Originally posted by: Astaroth33
Personally, I'd want to be with a woman who wasn't so insecure about herself. She sounds like the type who in public will be constantly harping on him, accusing him of checking out the hotties.
Originally posted by: jumpr
It's a collection that could be very valuable some day if he keeps it in perfect conditon like you say.
I'm sure he doesn't jack off with them if they're preserved so well. Some people collect baseball cards, this guy collects Playboys. He shouldn't lose this battle.
i think the question was whether or not the subscription continues. would you be okay with your wife actively collecting pictures of naked guys?
She has made her feelings known about the magazines. The question now is what does he value more - her feelings, or his need for the magazines.
It's really quite that simple.
Originally posted by: purepolly
She has made her feelings known about the magazines. The question now is what does he value more - her feelings, or his need for the magazines.
It's really quite that simple.
Originally posted by: Electric Amish
i think the question was whether or not the subscription continues. would you be okay with your wife actively collecting pictures of naked guys?
I've told my wife several times that if she felt that she wanted a subscription to any skin mag, I'd be fine with that.
She has made her feelings known about the magazines. The question now is what does he value more - her feelings, or his need for the magazines.
It's really quite that simple.
I would never want to be with someone that will only love me if I change.
Marriage is about acceptance, not dominance and manipulation.
amish
Originally posted by: Electric Amish
i think the question was whether or not the subscription continues. would you be okay with your wife actively collecting pictures of naked guys?
I've told my wife several times that if she felt that she wanted a subscription to any skin mag, I'd be fine with that.
I trust her enough to not worry about the chance that she's gonna run off with some centerfold and vice versa.
Originally posted by: gopunk
I trust her enough to not worry about the chance that she's gonna run off with some centerfold and vice versa.
i don't think anybody is worried about that. but dont' you thikn it is disgusting to have pictures of naked men sitting around your house? jesus christ, it gives me the willies just thinking about it.
Originally posted by: purepolly
was in a relationship JUST like that.
She wouldn't let me watch any movies with nekedness in them, and blew a gasket if I glanced at another woman.
She convinced me that NO woman would want a guy like that!
11 years later, and I still feel the effects of her nit picking.
I see trouble on the horizon if she is as bad as my ex....
Yea, I was in a relationship like that too.
He had a collection of of 100 pornos that he use to leave hanging around the house - didn't care if the kids accidently put them in the VCR - hell it was funny that preschoolers got to see pron. Don't you see the humor in that?
Or that he would spend almost every evening from 10pm-3am surfing the on-line porn sites. And every waking hour bitching that he wasn't getting any to friends. Or making sexual passes to his female coworkers, or compulsively masturbating.
Jep, I was just a prude to him. I even believed it for a while.
Then he went into therapy. Turns out I wasn't a prude, he was just a closet pervert. Diagnosed sex addict.
There are two sides to each coin.
Or
Originally posted by: purepolly
was in a relationship JUST like that.
She wouldn't let me watch any movies with nekedness in them, and blew a gasket if I glanced at another woman.
She convinced me that NO woman would want a guy like that!
11 years later, and I still feel the effects of her nit picking.
I see trouble on the horizon if she is as bad as my ex....
Yea, I was in a relationship like that too.
He had a collection of of 100 pornos that he use to leave hanging around the house - didn't care if the kids accidently put them in the VCR - hell it was funny that preschoolers got to see pron. Don't you see the humor in that?
Or that he would spend almost every evening from 10pm-3am surfing the on-line porn sites. And every waking hour bitching that he wasn't getting any to friends. Or making sexual passes to his female coworkers, or compulsively masturbating.
Jep, I was just a prude to him. I even believed it for a while.
Then he went into therapy. Turns out I wasn't a prude, he was just a closet pervert. Diagnosed sex addict.
There are two sides to each coin.
Or
Originally posted by: Hoober
Originally posted by: gopunk
I trust her enough to not worry about the chance that she's gonna run off with some centerfold and vice versa.
i don't think anybody is worried about that. but dont' you thikn it is disgusting to have pictures of naked men sitting around your house? jesus christ, it gives me the willies just thinking about it.
Well, I don't leave my Playboys just lying around the house, so I would expect her to not leave her mags lying around. And it's not like I would be flipping through them to view the centerfold. Hell, they might even have some good articles. I certainly have learned a lot from Playboy.
And the cartoons are hilarious.
Originally posted by: gopunk
Originally posted by: Hoober
Originally posted by: gopunk
I trust her enough to not worry about the chance that she's gonna run off with some centerfold and vice versa.
i don't think anybody is worried about that. but dont' you thikn it is disgusting to have pictures of naked men sitting around your house? jesus christ, it gives me the willies just thinking about it.
Well, I don't leave my Playboys just lying around the house, so I would expect her to not leave her mags lying around. And it's not like I would be flipping through them to view the centerfold. Hell, they might even have some good articles. I certainly have learned a lot from Playboy.
And the cartoons are hilarious.
oh ok, i thought these were just lying around the house.
Originally posted by: RalphKramden
And he has a subscription to Playboy for the last 7 years. Every issue has been kept immaculate and he treasures them. His future wife has summarily forbidden him to continue the subscription when they move in together after the wedding. They will be wed in August. My friends have all told him that it's BS since Playboy is no big deal. It's not like barely legal or some other crapola. He's going to cancel with sorrow heart. I told him that's a battle he shouldn't lose, since he's probably going to have to cater to all her whims. What do you think?
Originally posted by: AmerDoux
"My friends have all told him that it's BS since Playboy is no big deal. It's not like barely legal or some other crapola.
He's going to cancel with sorrow heart.
I told him that's a battle he shouldn't lose, since he's probably going to have to cater to all her whims.
What do you think?"
She was asking her future husband to respect her. You boys turned this into a win or lose battle.
Originally posted by: AmerDoux
"My friends have all told him that it's BS since Playboy is no big deal. It's not like barely legal or some other crapola.
He's going to cancel with sorrow heart.
I told him that's a battle he shouldn't lose, since he's probably going to have to cater to all her whims.
What do you think?"
She was asking her future husband to respect her. You boys turned this into a win or lose battle.
Originally posted by: AmerDoux
"My friends have all told him that it's BS since Playboy is no big deal. It's not like barely legal or some other crapola.
He's going to cancel with sorrow heart.
I told him that's a battle he shouldn't lose, since he's probably going to have to cater to all her whims.
What do you think?"
She was asking her future husband to respect her. You boys turned this into a win or lose battle.