That's the only kind of 4 year LDR that would make anyone happy
In my case I can't say it would simply because the "open" ability hasn't really been used at all except for a few joint encounters. As individuals seeking out our own satisfactions, I can't say we've done that much at all.
Still, human are odd creatures, and the mere statement of "its ok if you want to" immediately strips all the "i want to because i can't" emotions away. Once those emotions are gone, you find out how truly uninteresting the whole aspect is. Knowing that I'm free to only reinforces that, for now anyways, I don't really care to.